When talking with creative business owners recently, so many of the conversations include a statement like: “When I was first in business I really loved and valued all of my clients. I used to ….” Whether it was that they would hand deliver their prints, personally wrap their thank-you presents, or make sure they took their client out to dinner after the project was completed, as the business grew, the love faded and so did the unbridled enthusiasm for their clients. The business became the business and serving it became as important as serving clients.
I am not naïve. A creative business is a cruel mistress and can easily distract from the art you are trying to create every day. Employees, vendors, bookkeeping, and even clients just take over the pure, simple relationships you had way back when. And, no doubt, some of the things you did when you first started you may not be able to do now. However, I would argue the list is far smaller than you imagine. Mostly, you do not do them because you have allowed yourself to compromise. For example, if you are wedding photographer, maybe you used to sit personally with the couple and choose the images you thought best reflected the wedding. This was when you shot on film and if you took 500 images you took a lot. Now you shoot 2,000 on digital and put up your favorite 800 on a proofing site. You send them a form email to let them know the proofs are ready. The way of the world you tell yourself. Your competition does it this way and the business is there to prove it – where you used to shoot 10 weddings a year now you shoot 25 yourself and your staff another 50. Except.
Clients buy your joy – your process as much as your product. When you become jaded, they know it and then you are relying on the winds of the past to carry you forward. Your work might just be that good, but with competition as it is, likely not. You might think that doing a wonderful, professional job is enough. It is not. Today, it is about connection first. To paraphrase, Gary Vanyerchuk from his new book, The Thank You Economy, only surprising and delighting clients matters now. Gary talks about how every business has to establish meaningful, emotional connection with its customers. To which I add, none more so than creative business. Your businesses rely on the subjective perception of your art as valuable. Without emotion, your art becomes a commodity and, I am sorry, there is very little joy in producing a commodity.
Does it mean the end of your business if you cannot find the enthusiasm you had when you first started? Of course not. It just makes the road that much harder. You may not be able to sit with each of your clients and choose images with them, but a Skype call to review your top twenty? Gary Vee brilliantly points out that today’s technology is about connection at scale. The idea that you have to remove yourself from the intimacy of customer relationships to grow is a cop out. You may not have time to talk for an hour a day, but you can still absolutely show your depth of feeling with a video note or something similar. If you will not be giddy and grateful to the right client that said yes to you, your art and your creative business, beware of those that will.
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Sean would you mind if i translate this to spanish (full credit to you of course) and post a link in facebook for my fellow spanish speaking friends?
Sure Kyoko — so long as you provide full credit to me, happy for you to translate and re-post. Thank you!
As usual, your insight hits the spot! The interview is even better!
Best………Kathi
This is so true! And so worthwhile in an age where practically anyone can be “competition.” Once you break through the clutter of raw talent, the only thing that can set you apart is the experience you offer. Thanks for the reminder!
Very well said. I struggle with knowing I should do this and finding the time to do it. I am in the process of launching a new site, and this will be one way I am going to differentiate myself in an already saturated market (but a market I love). Thanks!
How surprising it has been for me to uncover the “jewels” of my online vintage shop…the sincere connection to my buyers.
This is such a great post, I will share it with the Etsy community.
Cheers!
Thank You! Sean for the insight.
Yes? I feel it’s so true.
I agree that today, it is about connection first and it’s not so easy for me.
I don’t understand some times, what people what to say, I also feel not comfortable to communicate in foreign language.
and I want to speak with all world.
I think that my handmade work can be universal language.
It’s not work in this way.
I still want to communicate with the world and I learn Learn Learn…
Thank you for your easy for understanding story
Well said! I so appreciate this reminder. It’s easy to get bogged down in the “business” of business. Thanks a lot.
I have become jaded, and haven’t even tried to hide it. I have come to resent anything and anyone that I feel is getting in the way of the way things “should flow”.
Thank you for your article, it has been a wakeup call. I worked hard to get these clients, now I need to remember how to treat them.
thank you!
Yes indeed it is also a huge pleasure to share your enthusiasm with someone who apparently likes what you are doing. Not often the chance to do this thing. Thankyou.
This is such a great point to remind us of, I am still in the beginning phases so to speak, but I see this issue in some of the more “successful” shop owners I deal with and I can only hope to hang on to the unbridled love I feel for everything I create. Thank you for the words of encouragement!
Great article! Truly wise. I sometimes struggle with the same things – but try to keep up the personality, even when I’m weary and tired. It’s not always easy. 😉
Thanks for the great article! Some really great tips. I am just starting out and deffinitely relate to the “beginners enthusiam” – It’s my goal to stay committed and enthusiactic even when my business grows larger.
Jill
Stay Calm Cupcake Shop
http://www.staycalmcupcake.etsy.com
“A creative business is a cruel mistress and can easily distract from the art you are trying to create every day” – this is so true! (and frustrating)…I feel like i’m in a rat race- I need to do so many things related to my business that I can not focus on what I really want to do – create new jewelry!
Connections are crucial in maintaining a business, i’m working on it…
Thanks for an excellent important post!
Thank you for your excellent tips and I will run with them! Etsy suggested us to read and followup and I am thrilled they did! I AM a newbie just starting out. It is my most precious dream to start my own business creating/designing my own jewelry and antiquing for that special vintage item for my shelves. Ever since I was diagnosed with a disabling illness, I knew I had no choice but to come up with another form of life (so to speak) and Etsy is the place to put my DREAM to life! Now with innovative and motivating speakers/writers such as yourself, will it’s a win – win attitude for me, thank you so much! Much success to us all! Now go get em everyone!
I had tons of help and thanks to the ecomony and some good old fashioned common sense, I am now a one man band most of the year. So far this year, in preparation for the upcoming holiday season (I hand paint ornaments), I have been thinking this EXACT thought. When I started out 20 years ago, I was so excited to “get the order” and so “grateful” I would include a nice note and show appreciation. So this year I am going back to that. Thank you for reminding all of us that it is good to be humble and grateful that we GET to work in our own studio everyday. No matter what the task is.
LOVE IT, getting back to the basics.
I read this TWICE, and loved it. I think that this post hits a business person’s issues on the head. Right now, it is about client serving… and we must be mindful of what we provide to our esteemed clients. Yes the economy has rocked us all; however, we love being treated well. Lets treat others well as well. They will keep coming back, and tell all of their friends on how wonderfully you treated them, and that helps everyone.
Boy did I ever need this reminder. I knew (and ignored) that I had slipped from the efforts I used to put in to making every client and vendor know how important they are to me. It could very well be one of the things that has left me feeling like something is missing.
Thank you for this post. I sell hand-made products and while they are not technically perfect, they have a character, a life of their own, or this is what I like to think about my creations. Your little phrase “Clients buy your joy – your process as much as your product.” confirms what I think. You put a diffuse thought I had for a long time into concrete words = something I can better visualize when writing my product description, hence being more convincing.
Again thank you